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The Chatterbox => Random Chat => Topic started by: NewF on July 18, 2008, 02:15:59 AM
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Bored, and curious. Share your current relationship status, the way you feel about the one you're with, pictures, differences, similarities, etc.
I'll start I suppose.
The girl i'm with now is absolutely amazing. Can't get enough of her. Only problem is...Her parents are kinda strict. But I think I did a good thing by; 1 day I went to her house, sat down with her and her parents, and basically asked for permission to date her. Was nervous until I heard them say yes, it was fine, and they like em and they find me respectable and what not. So now its basically, I get to go over her house and spend time with her every other day kinda, then after a while, earn their trust to be able to take her out on my own. Alot of effort put in it yes...But worth it to me.
Pics -
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v645/NewF/Diane7.jpg)
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v645/NewF/Diane26.jpg)
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v645/NewF/Diane2.jpg)
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v645/NewF/Diane18.jpg)
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v645/NewF/Diane14.jpg)
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Love this girl so much! Agh! She drives me crazy (In a good way) and I just can't get her off my mind or stop talking about her. And shes the same way with me. Its a great feeling to have!
P.S - Shes 18, i'm 23. Shes tiny, weighed her the other day....94 pounds! I'm 210. Lol. And also, shes Portuguese, and i'm Newfie!
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don't let go of that one sir newf!
anyway, i am single, and well i have higher priorities at the moment (finding a job, getting into college after finding job)
but im happy, so s'all good.
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No pics here :/
But yeah, I've been with Melissa for over 4 years now. Sure, the whole "can't stop thinking of them" thing is gone, but honestly, it doesn't make much of a difference. We hang out as much as possible, and her parents (while they joke about hating me a lot) seem to like me, and aren't very strict at all. We both like Anime (though she watches a lot more than I do), we mostly like the same music, she used to play stepmania (but after being unable to play on her computer for a while, began to get bad and just quit).
tl;dr We've been together 4 years and we're perfect for eachother.
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I don't have a relationship(s)
Maybe a relationliferaft. With my computers. It's a love-hate relationliferaft that usually ends up hurting the computers in the long run :-(
Basically, in real life, I'm unapproachable and I lack the social sophistication and confidence that is required to approach anybody. I lack motivation to even try and improve this shit situation. In other news,
(http://kuroneko.spectere.net/images/DT-18072008.jpg)
this kickass image makes up for the negativity of the rest of my message by over 9000 times
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Dude, I get social anxiety pretty bad. I met my GF online. I met her through a friend. Basically, my friend and I were hanging out, we got bored, and asked if he had anyone on his msn that liked anime. He said he new one, but he hardly talked to her. I ended up getting her email, and the rest is history. She's the third girlfriend I've had, ever.
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Haven't dated since I moved to Vegas. Dated a few girls back in Florida and almost one girl I really liked (and still miss and talk to) before I moved. As for now m single except some guy in Vegas likes me but we're not dating or anything so i'll see how that goes.
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There's a tauren on my server that fell in love with my bloodelf... he wont stop talking to me. The creepy part is that now he knows I'm a guy and it has only made him more persistent.
My first girlfriend I was with for over a year then I broke up with her at prom because she was an asshole. Her Dad came after me with a shotgun.
I've been in and out of month-long relationships since then, but I like it that way. This way there's more of a chance for me to meet the right person and less chance of an encounter with a shotgun.
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For all intents and purposes, I have no real dating experience. I mean, I went out with one girl last year for a couple of weeks, but neither of us really count that. A girl from the arcade at the mall got my number and asked me out over the phone a few times, all of which ended with a "No." I also had a date to prom who told me that she thought I was actually a good date. Other than that, there's nothing. I'm looking forward to college because here, there really weren't many options, and I got over a lot of my social ineptitude so I can actually confidently approach people now.
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There's a tauren on my server that fell in love with my bloodelf... he wont stop talking to me. The creepy part is that now he knows I'm a guy and it has only made him more persistent.
Yikes.
My first girlfriend I was with for over a year then I broke up with her at prom because she was an asshole. Her Dad came after me with a shotgun.
Yikes.
Uh, also, isn't that kind of illegal? Like, to the point where he could wind up getting some very serious jail time for it?
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I dunno about the laws there, but that would count as assault, at the least, and possibly attempted murder at the other end.
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I met my girlfriend on Livejournal. Turns out we both went to same college, we met up for lunch during 1st week of semester and we've been together ever since. It'll be 4 years this September.
Since then, we've both graduated and chilling n stuff.
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Wow, kinda weird. Though to be honest I met someone online in a weirder scenario.
We were on Lycos Chat (yeah, this was back in the day), and I was there to RP (non sexual, if you will actually believe that, you dirty bastards), and I got a random whisper. Turned out she lived in a small town (smaller by far than my small town) near by, and even went to the same damn school as I did. Well, she did some background checking on me, because she was paranoid. But we ended up meeting and becoming friends. Of course, I was rather dense at the time, and didn't realize the huge hints she was dropping (she drove me home (she was 2 years older than I was), we went to movies together, and such), and ended up going out with my current GF. She was pretty pissed. Pretty much broke our friendship. Even now, I'm a little sad, because she was about the only person who I honestly felt could honestly best me in RP at the time. Gah, thinking about this makes me miss her. It's been something like 3 yeqrs since I last talked to her :/
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Well fuck, that sucks.
I honestly don't know what I'd do if I ended up breaking up with my GF.
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Heh. It's been almost a year since I have been single and I am miserable. I miss having a girl in my life who is more then a friend and such and such. You guys get the idea.
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I am firmly of the belief that relationships suck. Granted, I'm a hypocrite about that, but they still suck. I've just completely given up on girls because I've had nothing but bad experiences with them being emotionally unstable, manipulative, self-serving bitches. :( I think if I weren't bisexual I'd just give up on dating forever, but at least there's still some hope. It'll be interesting to see how this long-distance dynamic works out.
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xxxxx's ex was hot. hahahaha. this is either the OMG HAPPY or -_- thread.
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Most guys I meet just think I'm strange, so I'm hardly trying with that anymore. And the only girl I've had feelings for at all is not only taken, but entirely too young for me.
So, whoo. :3
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There's no such thing as too young for girls, lol.
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Uh, also, isn't that kind of illegal? Like, to the point where he could wind up getting some very serious jail time for it?
Well he didn't shoot at me or anything. He was just mad. Plus he was a generally nice guy, just angry cause I had ditched her after prom. At the time I had planned on still talking to her and maybe dating after she grew up a little, but since there are now shotguns involved I decided against ever talking to her again.
Actually I had her mom's number saved into my phone as "Ms. S" and accidentally called her one day when I was looking for "Mom". Fun times.
I am firmly of the belief that relationships suck.
Seriously, girls make relationships faaaar more complicated then they need to be. The whole process of meeting other people seems so sporadic and finicky that it makes you wonder if anyone actually wants to find someone they like. It almost seems like people (women in particular) are more fixated on letting people trick them into liking them than actually going out and seeing what works for them. Not in a promiscuous way of course, but we should be open to new people.
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Well he didn't shoot at me or anything. He was just mad.
Even so, threatening someone with a deadly weapon is still illegal. They call it "improper exhibition of a firearm." He could have spent several years in jail (Florida has a mandatory three-year jail sentence for it, for example) if you told the police.
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There's no such thing as too young for girls, lol.
Well, there is for me. :P
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Even so, threatening someone with a deadly weapon is still illegal. They call it "improper exhibition of a firearm." He could have spent several years in jail (Florida has a mandatory three-year jail sentence for it, for example) if you told the police.
Yeah, see, I don't know all the firearm laws, and I certainly don't know all the state specific laws, but in most places, waving a shotgun at someone is illegal, or at the VERY least counts as assault. In Canada, making any kind of threatening gesture as well as saying anything threatening counts as assault. So waving a fist at someone and saying something like "I'm gonna beat the fuck out of you" would be considered assault, despite you never having laid a finger on them.
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Been going out with her for a day short of 9 months now. Everything I could ask for. I'd put a picture of us up but I'm posting from my phone at work lol
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So I can see. I've noticed that people's mobile messages have that little phone icon.
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Seriously, girls make relationships faaaar more complicated then they need to be. The whole process of meeting other people seems so sporadic and finicky that it makes you wonder if anyone actually wants to find someone they like. It almost seems like people (women in particular) are more fixated on letting people trick them into liking them than actually going out and seeing what works for them. Not in a promiscuous way of course, but we should be open to new people.
Too true. Thats how it was with both of my ex's.
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My girlfriend is really, really cool. She can be bipolar at times but I love her either way. We have tons of fun, I could be captured by Columbian rebels with her and still enjoy myself.
(http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v682/IceBlasphemy/100_1154.jpg)
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Well, first off, ask her about it and see what she sais. If she sais she feels the same way when shes sober, then i'd say go for it. If she sais something different, then just ask her why she did that to you that night. And don't let her get away with the excuse "I was drunk" lol.
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yeah, sobriety is key my man.
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yeah, sobriety is key my man.
Shut up ass face lol.
And as for the girl, just becuase you fight, Meh. A relationship isn't a relationship without fighting. I'd say go with the flow and go for it man.
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Grab what ya can and run with it for as long as you can
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the only thing holding me back is the fact that we fight a fair amount about really trivial things.
I don't blame you for this. I know someone who I fight with for trivial things, so even though we get along great, a lot of the time I simply avoid some subjects to keep any arguments from being set off. Of course, I really hate arguing with people, so it might be different for me. I'd go for it, but keep at a distance for a while.
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Grab what ya can and run with it for as long as you can
I like you. Where'd you come from?
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He's a friend of mine. Name of Richard, called Target (there's a story behind it), Jesus (looked like Jesus for a while), Rich, Rick, Dick, Dickard, and (by his mom) Ricker.
My girlfriend also occasionally lurks here, and I got her to sign up once, but she posted about once. She's not very good with forums.
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He's a friend of mine. Name of Richard, called Target (there's a story behind it), Jesus (looked like Jesus for a while), Rich, Rick, Dick, Dickard, and (by his mom) Ricker.
Dickard...I like it.
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That's the current name we use for him :P
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That's the current name we use for him :P
Waaaay back in high school (wow I am old) I was called different variations of my first and last name.
Nick, Nickoli, Nicky, Nickalonean, Blackjack, Jack Black, Black -n- mild, and many others
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Yes, though I'm not in college right now, I can still say "way back" in highschool.
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Yes, though I'm not in college right now, I can still say "way back" in highschool.
Heh Spectere is the oldest here...he can tell us about the Dinosaurs. XD
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True, lol.
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Heh Spectere is the oldest here...he can tell us about the Dinosaurs. XD
Actually I believe Eggman is older :x
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I sees.
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Actually I believe Eggman is older :x
And I'm pretty sure Grey Knight (wherever he is) is older than him.
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And I'm pretty sure this thread is officially derailed.
Oh, and ridge is the oldest.
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Hey so do any of you guys have experience with a clinically depressed girlfriend? Like, it's taken me almost a year to stop being naive towards her depression, and now that I've acknowledged it, I've started trying to figure out ways in which I can help her deal with it. But seeing as how I have no experience with depression, I haven't a clue. Any suggestions?
Man I'm bad at explaining stuff.
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Hey so do any of you guys have experience with a clinically depressed girlfriend? Like, it's taken me almost a year to stop being naive towards her depression, and now that I've acknowledged it, I've started trying to figure out ways in which I can help her deal with it. But seeing as how I have no experience with depression, I haven't a clue. Any suggestions?
Man I'm bad at explaining stuff.
my two cents: she has to realize it's affecting her, and the people around her. Then she has to take the right steps and be willing to work with herself towards a goal. Just taking drugs and hoping they help is not the answer.
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She knows it's affecting her, us, and everyone else, but she's not trying to do anything about it really, except watch everything crash and burn.
We just got done having a terrible 2.5-hour long AIM conversation, in which I think she told me we're over (which she's said I think 6 or 7 times before but has never actually happened) and pretty much lost it (which has happened countless times) and blamed herself for all of her problems.
At this point I think it would be wiser to just not talk to her/leave her alone for a few days so she can think about her actions. Part of me wants to try and talk to her later so i can yet again fix things but I honestly don't have the mental willpower to do so anymore.
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At this point I think it would be wiser to just not talk to her/leave her alone for a few days so she can think about her actions.
I doubt that's going to happen. If she really is depressed, she's likely just going to wallow and blame herself for you not talking to her. Granted, you actually know her. I'm basing my input on someone I used to like (or think I liked). She was depressed, but she didn't really deal with it because it got her attention. She was pretty selfish and manipulative.
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Yeah, you're probably right about that. She IMed me a little while ago and we're cool again... yet another false alarm I guess. She really likes to cry wolf.
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Well, it's over.
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Well, it's over.
:-[
I sorry. :/
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Well, it's over.
Shit...sorry to hear that. :(
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No good. What happened, if you don't mind me asking?
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Well, it's over.
It happens man...but there is someone for everyone. Just keep your head and high and look again when you are ready.
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The best part is that im not sad about it. :)
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Hey that's a good thing though. As long as you don't get bumbed about it, everything will be gravy.
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yeep. talkin to a chicka atm. woot.
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Ok so I'm basically going out with this chick now.
She's 4 years younger than me, which is really the only setback we have (when I turn 21, she'll still be 16). But that's fine, neither of us care, and we hope her dad won't either. We decided that we are in fact in a relationship together, but we won't really announce it or "officialize it" until I get to know her dad. Not that her dad is controlling (he's actually pretty cool), we just thought it'd be a good idea. (more of this later)
So every thing's cool so far. We've already started to hold hands, and we are comfortable kissing each other on the cheek. I'm meeting up with her this morning before she has school to just talk and shoot the breeze for a bit. Every day is a new surprise with her, and it feels completely rewarding to be crazy about someone who feels the exact same way back for you. We both value the exact same things in the relationship, and both want the same things from it. I'm quite ecstatic.
Anyway, I'm going to ride my buddy's bike all the way out about 16 miles to meet up with her dad on Friday, and talk to him. I'm going to ask him for permission to date her. I'm sure he'll give me a bunch of questions, and probably tell me some shit that he expects from me, especially seeing as how she is his only daughter. Yep. So, if all of that jazz goes well, we're legit.
Anywho, i'll hopefully update soonish.
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Well, if he's not very controlling, it shouldn't be that bad of a grilling.
Albeit that is kinda oldschool nowdays anyway, lol.
Good to hear you've found someone like that. The best sign of a good relationship is if you can be best friends before ever doing anything a couple would do. (However, that also means that you could potentially lose a great friend if things go sour.)
My girlfriend and I could talk like we were best friends almost from the moment we met.
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Ok so I'm basically going out with this chick now.
She's 4 years younger than me, which is really the only setback we have (when I turn 21, she'll still be 16). But that's fine, neither of us care, and we hope her dad won't either. We decided that we are in fact in a relationship together, but we won't really announce it or "officialize it" until I get to know her dad. Not that her dad is controlling (he's actually pretty cool), we just thought it'd be a good idea. (more of this later)
So every thing's cool so far. We've already started to hold hands, and we are comfortable kissing each other on the cheek. I'm meeting up with her this morning before she has school to just talk and shoot the breeze for a bit. Every day is a new surprise with her, and it feels completely rewarding to be crazy about someone who feels the exact same way back for you. We both value the exact same things in the relationship, and both want the same things from it. I'm quite ecstatic.
Anyway, I'm going to ride my buddy's bike all the way out about 16 miles to meet up with her dad on Friday, and talk to him. I'm going to ask him for permission to date her. I'm sure he'll give me a bunch of questions, and probably tell me some shit that he expects from me, especially seeing as how she is his only daughter. Yep. So, if all of that jazz goes well, we're legit.
Anywho, i'll hopefully update soonish.
"What are your intentions with my daughter, are you gon' pregnate her?
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For all of you at home the general rule for dating someone younger with out it being creepy is:
*Your age/2+7.
Basicly I am 21 therefore:
21/2+7= 17.5 but I round up and go to 18.
Got from xkcd.com
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One I don't like but amuses me still:
"If there is grass on the field, play ball."
Still congrats Zakamiro.
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I really don't think there is a fine line for age. If the person is cool enough, who gives a shit?
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Well, we recently upped our age of consent to 16. I honestly think that anyone under 16 really shouldn't be having sex... They don't understand the repercussions of it, plus, even with birth control and condoms, there's still a 2 in 10,000 chance that she'll get pregnant.
I've seen what teen pregnancy can do to people. It's not good. My GF's sister (who is my age) has a kid that's like, almost 2, IIRC, and she just got pregnant again (she's going to have an abortion this time). Child services took her child away, and the father currently has it (despite the fact that he's illiterate, as well as his entire family!). They took it from her because she was mentally unstable (because she took him for a routine check up and child services just walked in and took it form her for no real reason!), and since then she hasn't been able to get him back.
The sad thing is that she would make a good mother (she knows how to take care of kids well). So basically child services fucked that kid's life (and my GF's sister's life) up royally for no fucking reason.
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I really don't think there is a fine line for age. If the person is cool enough, who gives a shit?
Valid point.
The thing with me is though if she is 16 or 17 I see her more as a younger "sister". Even if she likes me and wants to date me I can't date her because how I view her. It's wierd granted but I just can't do it.
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I has a date tomorrow.
8)
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Has fun tomorrow!
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I hope to. I haven't seen this fellow in over a year. :3 I missed him.
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Well, we recently upped our age of consent to 16. I honestly think that anyone under 16 really shouldn't be having sex... They don't understand the repercussions of it, plus, even with birth control and condoms, there's still a 2 in 10,000 chance that she'll get pregnant.
Sure, but it's not like those odds tip favorably or they immediately know the repercussions once they turn 16, either.
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Thats why sex-ed is needed in high school to help young one understand these things.
Aren't we slightly off subject?
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Okay, so I went out there to the motocross track to talk to her dad (he runs it) and we sat and talked it over. He seemed to be happy with me, and the answers I had given him. Seems like the only thing he didnt like was that I couldnt finish high school due to being kicked out and that she had told him I was 19, not 20. She knows im 20, but must have lied and said 19. hahaha. It's fucking funny asking her dad to go out with her, even though we've had a couple good kiss sessions.... lol "church tongue". She's even told me that if he says no, she'll still go out with me because she wants to be with me that bad. Which, actually, is pretty fucking impressive considering how much trust she's earned from her parents and stuff. ANYWAY. So her dad is going to talk to her on monday, the day she gets back from her current weekend vacation at lake tahoe. (look it up if you dont know where it is)
So it's good news, and both she and I are incredibly excited. :]
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Thats why sex-ed is needed in high school to help young one understand these things.
Aren't we slightly off subject?
Agreed, and no, we're not really that far off topic.
But see, take a look at 14 year-olds, and 16 year-olds, and think about it. A 14 year old is in grade 8, a 16 year old is in grade 10. That's 2 year s of high school experience more mature than 14.
When you're in grade 8, you're generally the most mature students in your school, however, in grade 9 you're the least mature, you have much more contact with more mature people. In those 2 years, you grow a lot.
Sure, 16 is still young to get pregnant (in the off chance it happens at that age), but it's a lot better than 14. Not to mention that it's pretty much impossible to really place a proper age of consent. I mean, some people are probably mature enough to have sex at 14, not many, but some may be. However, there are some people who probably still wouldn't be mature enough to have sex at 20 years old.
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uhhhhh, random update.
Going out now, every day we get a little more serious into the relationship. (we're both 100% committed to it, but serious as in how much further into the relationship we are)
I'm basically hella happy. It's funny how so many people can be jealous of you for your girlfriend... >.> rofl.
Anyway, so as of late I've been spending less time online because I'm usually out doing shit (with her). The internet hella sucks, and doesn't really hold my interest anymore. I'll keep posting, but meh.
ANYWAYYYYYYYYY. yep.
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Oh, and ridge is the oldest.
why am i being brought up in this conversation
dog anus licker
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suuuuuuuuuuck my dogs diiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiick
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suuuuuuuuuuck my dogs diiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiick
great simfile or greatest simfile?
cough.
my one-year anniversary with my girlfriend was on the 3rd. I wrote her a poem and got us some massages at a spa, we reserved them for Tuesday. Totally can't wait.
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i guess we broke up or something.
NOW i see why they invented metal.
\m/
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i guess we broke up or something.
NOW i see why they invented metal.
\m/
Ouch. And yeah, at times like that, metal can be a godsend.
Stuff
Cool, hope things work out for you two.
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She just can't deal with having a boyfriend anymore. She needs a hiatus I guess.
She's said that plenty of times but she's actually serious this time, like, she's actually acting different around me. It's weird.
I keep getting really anxious and sad at random times. I called her during first hour today (she goes to college now so she wasn't in class yet) just cause I needed to talk to her and have her comfort me and stuff. It worked nicely. But man I was pretty highstrung yesterday. It was bad. Good thing we hung out for a bit later that night and ran some errands together. Because when she came over to my house after school that afternoon, she started telling me her reasons (this time) for breaking up with me, one of which included that she got some feelings back for her ex who came down to visit from ohio.
man that felt good, hearing he was coming down to visit her. i knew deep down this would happen when i first heard he was coming down. and it did. Kind of like a worst fear sort of thing... pretty spiffy. They didn't actually, like, do anything, it was just kind of a revelation for her- I guess she realized we weren't really right as a couple anymore (or something to that effect) while he was visiting with her.
She's extraordinarily fickle though, because the day after we "broke up" she came over and we made passionate love. Then the next day she was like wait I made a huge mistake let's stop doing that stuff seriously now. Urrrghhh it's sooo frustrating. I guess the only thing I can do is just take a huge step back and clear my mind of nutty thoughts (which are relatively prevalent right now)
tl;dr RICHARD NIXON (www.myspace.com/notastapler)
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Lame. shit like this makes me feel really lucky I've found a long, stable relationship without going through nearly as much as some people have.
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Okay guys I have a question, one which has been positively haunting me for the past few days.
If your girlfriend wore a really tight white blouse- one of those quasi-see-through types- with no bra, in which her teats are extraordinarily visible (i.e. spotlights, exponentially increased when the room is cold) in public and around friends/peers, would it upset you?
We got into quite a nice argument over this the other day, and I need to make sure I'm not crazy (or affirm the fact that I am, perhaps). She came over to my house wearing the aforementioned blouse and I flipped a lid because I knew every guy that saw her today probably had a field day sneaking peeks at her.
When I asked my friend at school, who my girlfriend talked to as she visited said school, if she could tell my girlfriend wasn't wearing a bra, she replied in the affirmative- yeah, it was absolutely noticeable, and i'm sure everyone else noticed too.
And her reasoning is simply that it's comfortable. Right, it's comfortable, for wearing around the house. Self-respecting people (of which she has none- self-respect, that is) don't wear that out in public. She is under the impression that because her breasts are "small" (smaller than she'd like, of course) nobody else ever notices them or cares. I tried to make it clear to her that when she doesn't wear a bra and does wear an extraordinarily tight, revealing blouse, they do, but she refused to believe me.
Obviously my reasoning is that I don't want people other than me to see that sort of thing. Call it being possessive? Or jealous? I suppose it's both of those, but hell, that's how I feel. I don't want other guys to see what was supposed to be a privilege to me.
Tell me I'm crazy.
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You aren't crazy. I agree with you.
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Same, I'd flip out about that.
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This is greatly embarrassing but...here we go
1) never had a girlfriend
2) never been on a date
3) never kissed a girl
4) have a ton of girl friends but no girlfriends
5) total virgin at age 18
6) always wind up with girl friends
this is the saddest list of things I've ever made but it is all true.
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That's not really sad at all actually >_>
Speaking from personal experiences, relationships tend to blow when you're under 18. Older you are, older she is (hopefully, rofl) and the more mature both you guys are, allowing for more flexibility, happiness capacity, etc.
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This is greatly embarrassing but...here we go
1) never had a girlfriend
2) never been on a date
3) never kissed a girl
4) have a ton of girl friends but no girlfriends
5) total virgin at age 18
6) always wind up with girl friends
this is the saddest list of things I've ever made but it is all true.
Well...
1) Only had 1 girlfriend, only lasted 2 weeks
2) Only date was prom, hardly really a date
3) Never kissed a girl
4) About as many girls as guys that I'm friends with, one of them was my prom date, another was the 2 week girlfriend, both of them awkwardly avoided me for months after both.
5) Total virgin at 18
6) Usually end up with just female friends or girls who are awkward around me
So don't feel too bad.
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This is greatly embarrassing but...here we go
1) never had a girlfriend
2) never been on a date
3) never kissed a girl
4) have a ton of girl friends but no girlfriends
5) total virgin at age 18
6) always wind up with girl friends
this is the saddest list of things I've ever made but it is all true.
This was true of my life until I turned 20.
Of course, by society's standards, I've barely improved. My girlfriend is an online relationship and lives 1,200 miles away, in Pennsylvania. I suppose visiting her (twice) has helped my case somewhat, at least. =p
But oh man she is the greatest thing in the universe.
Take your time. Those who get desperate tend to get in trouble. No shame not being in a relationship.
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Same, I'd flip out about that.
She told me she realized the reason she doesn't like wearing her bra much is because it sucks and she needs a new one.
Needless to say, we're going bra shopping for her soon. This is definitely a very good thing in terms of being positive about the whole situation.
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Of course, by society's standards, I've barely improved. My girlfriend is an online relationship and lives 1,200 miles away, in Pennsylvania.
I live in PA...where?
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Where in PA do you live...depending where you might be less then an hour where I live.
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Bensalem...near Philly...right next to the Philly park casino.
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I live in PA...where?
I am down in the Dallas area and she's near Philadelphia. (Springfield area)
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0.0; thats more like 4 hours for me
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This is greatly embarrassing but...here we go
1) never had a girlfriend
2) never been on a date
3) never kissed a girl
4) have a ton of girl friends but no girlfriends
5) total virgin at age 18
6) always wind up with girl friends
this is the saddest list of things I've ever made but it is all true.
1) I've had about 2 girlfriends, including my current one.
2) I haven't really been on a date per se. I've gone to movies with my girlfriend before, but I've never done anything like taking her out for dinner or anything
3) Sadly enough, it took us 6 months before we kissed, and that was my first kiss.
4) I've got very few female friends, honestly, so in that position you may actually be better off than me.
5) Still a virgin at 20 years old and having been with my girlfriend for over 4 years (though that may soon change).
6) Never seem to end up with female friends, period.
I'm, living breathing proof that you can in fact find a stable relationship at a younger age, however, it's extremely rare, and ou need to be very lucky (I swear that must have used up all my luck, because other than that, my luck is absolute crap, lol).
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Where in PA do you live...depending where you might be less then an hour where I live.
A map of PA for the uninformed.
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Very nice...Cheesesteak, mmmm....Amish, mmmm, i mean, hhmmmm yea.
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Oh god I nearly died in ROFLs becuase of the very acurate map.
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So after hanging out with some friends of mine, she calls me up to tell me she's developed a crush on one of my friends.
She's the textbook definition of fickle, and I'm getting really sick of it.
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Yeah I know the feeling my friend. Just hope it is a fleeting feeling of her's so your year of school doesn't suck ( this is you final one correct?)
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So after hanging out with some friends of mine, she calls me up to tell me she's developed a crush on one of my friends.
She's the textbook definition of fickle, and I'm getting really sick of it.
Bitches ain't shit.
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Yeah I know the feeling my friend. Just hope it is a fleeting feeling of her's so your year of school doesn't suck ( this is you final one correct?)
i believe it is, from what she tells me, but i'm still pretty angry. man.
when i was hanging out with my friends after she left, i asked them what they thought about her. they all said she was cool and stuff, but i know they wouldn't dare touch her (figuratively speaking) because it would jeopardize our friendlihoods.
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You sly dog you. Get both of them in bed together with you 8)
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I must construct additional action.
I require more vespene vagina.
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Hah, nice one.
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Another person is infatuated with me. Le sigh. This makes at least 6 people (three girls, one gay guy, one straight guy, and one lesbian) in the past few months, and those just are the ones who've told me. Damn my flirty personality. :-\
Also, yay for relevant bump.
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Another person is infatuated with me. Le sigh. This makes at least 6 people (three girls, one gay guy, one straight guy, and one lesbian) in the past few months, and those just are the ones who've told me. Damn my flirty personality.
Yeah...this.
I too have random people who like me but are in relationships, are gay guys, or lesbians...why does this world need to be so cruel to me......throw me a frickin' bone here.
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The fuck is with lesbians liking you guys? Jesus.
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1) never had a girlfriend
2) never been on a date
3) never kissed a girl
4) have a ton of girl friends but no girlfriends
5) total virgin at age 18
6) always wind up with girl friends
^this
except replace 18 with 16
I dunno if it's because I'm doing something wrong, or they're just not interested, but whatever:
asexuality ftw (yes, I am asexual)
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I never had many girlfriends. My current girlfriend is more or less my third girlfriend, and we've been going out for over 4 years now.
I lucked out. A lot.
And I'm still a virgin, despite the fact that she is now on birth control (though that may not be that long).
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A friend that I play TFC with that lives over seas I am starting to feel attracted to her.
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I dated my last girlfriend for a month. Long story short, I liked her, but she broke up with me because of "family stress". She still wants to talk and mess around, but I just ignore her IMs asking for phone secks. Right now, there's another girl who I'd like to date. She got her nosejob a day before me. (x I don't know if she likes me back or not, because I'm terrible at reading signs...oh well.
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what is it about fucking that makes you crave sheetz afterward?
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what is it about fucking that makes you crave sheetz afterward?
lol wat
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My friend's ex-girlfriend has started texting me. A lot. And it's always the same thing:
"Hey whats up?"
"Nothing/Not much"
"Thats cool lol"
Sometimes it goes on for a few more texts, but I have yet to have a real conversation with her.
He told me that's her method of flirting and that I should just ignore them, so I did. I don't like this girl, and she's always weirded me out. She seemed like she'd be pretty clingy when I first met her, but it also bothered me that she never really had anything to say and didn't seem too smart. She was especially clingy towards me, but she ended up dating my friend after he asked her out (most likely because me and this friend have very similar interests and personalities, but he's never so sure of his first impressions). After a few months of dating, she dumped him. Around this time she started texting me, but it was only once or twice every 2 weeks. It got progressively more frequently until it happened twice in the same day, at this point I decided to stop responding. I haven't gotten any messages from her in the past 2 days, and it feels pretty relieving.
Since going to college, I haven't really felt attracted to anyone for some reason. I thought it was because the girls around here suck, but when I went home and hung out with one girl who I liked for pretty much my entire senior year and had felt at least some mild attraction for since we'd met, I felt nothing towards her either. I have no idea what's up, but it definitely feels better not liking anyone than being on the wrong side of a one-way crush.
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Going back out with the lady, officially, although absolutely zero has changed between us. Relationships are so weird.
Although I might venture things are better now than ever before :o
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Going back out with the lady, officially, although absolutely zero has changed between us. Relationships are so weird.
Although I might venture things are better now than ever before :o
Gratz, I'm beginning to really hate having my girlfriend living further away. Thank god she's coming back for the winter break.
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I never had many girlfriends. My current girlfriend is more or less my third girlfriend, and we've been going out for over 4 years now.
I lucked out. A lot.
And I'm still a virgin, despite the fact that she is now on birth control (though that may not be that long).
Why is she on birth control if you guys aren't having sex?
.....Not going to point fingers or anything and I could be wrong, but I smell something fishy going on....
Oh and if you do ask her why shes on it, don't listen to the excuse "it regulates me" cause that'd be any girls excuse. Just a heads up.
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don't listen to the excuse "it regulates me" cause that'd be any girls excuse. Just a heads up.
...Except it's true in a number of cases?
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That IS a valid reason...But in most cases, thats the excuse they come up with, because thats what any other girl would say. I've seen it done before. Girls going on the pill, because they know they're having sex/cheating on their boyfriends, and they use that excuse as a cover up. Like I said, i'm not pointing fingers, but it *might* be something you wanna check out, just in-case. Don't put much effort into it, but you never know.
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Why is she on birth control if you guys aren't having sex?
.....Not going to point fingers or anything and I could be wrong, but I smell something fishy going on....
Oh and if you do ask her why shes on it, don't listen to the excuse "it regulates me" cause that'd be any girls excuse. Just a heads up.
She's on birth control because we decided it would be a good idea, we don't exactly plan on being aren't virgins much longer any more.
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Congrats! How was it, lol :P
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tell me you've stayed away from the anus
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Congrats! How was it, lol :P
Quite nice :P
tell me you've stayed away from the anus
And what if I didn't ;) I did keep away
I was wondering how long it would take for someone to reply to that, lol.
And I do appreciate the thought behind the advice earlier.
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Yay for sex.
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Yay for sex.
lol, agreed. Afterwards I sent her 1 message on msn (from my laptop, to her desktop in the same room, while she was sitting beside me) that was just "SEX", lol.
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And you get the joy now of leaving rooms smelling like latex and semen. Enjoy! :D
But 4srsly, good job sir! I'm glad you had fun/will keep having fun.
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And you get the joy now of leaving rooms smelling like latex and semen. Enjoy! :D
I already left many rooms smelling like my girlfriend, so that's not THAT much of a difference, lol.
will keep having fun.
Quoted for total truth. I like when I go over there and nobody is there :P
Unfortunately, now that my girlfriend is going to be back for the holidays, it will make it rather difficult, since we hardly ever have time where nobody else is in the house. And my bed makes WAY too much noise :S
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Me and the lady still haven't bumped uglies. Been over a year, give or take a few months I guess. Should really get around to that.
I asked for it as a Christmas present from her. Let's see if Santa comes XD
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Me and the lady still haven't bumped uglies. Been over a year, give or take a few months I guess. Should really get around to that.
I asked for it as a Christmas present from her. Let's see if Santa comes XD
Lmao, well, that's always a nice present. I think I'm gonna have to get my girlfriend a "friend" for when I'm not around. Of course, those things CAN be fun when I am around too.
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Aww! Yay! ^_^
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Hooray for being singl....where is my hand gun god damn.
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Hooray for being singl....where is my hand gun god damn.
If you're lucky, you'll get one for Christmas :P
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www.craigslist.org
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You can buy guns off of craigs list?
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Dude, you can buy anything, including people dressed up as impostor robbers. (they proved that one not too long ago)
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So I borrowed some shampoo from some random girl in the dorms and now she's hitting on me pretty hardcore. This wouldn't bother me if she hasn't been with pretty much everyone on the dorm floor, but even disregarding that, it's a bit weird.
Also, things are definitely over between me and my ex. I'm still kind of in shock, since that was the best relationship I've had and I'm still facing the prospect of not having it available. I dunno, I think I'll be back to normal soon enough, but damn. Ever notice how relationships are pretty much
10 Find relationships a waste of time
20 Meet someone who defies expectations
30 Bliss
40 Breakup
50 GOTO 10
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So I borrowed some shampoo from some random girl in the dorms and now she's hitting on me pretty hardcore. This wouldn't bother me if she hasn't been with pretty much everyone on the dorm floor, but even disregarding that, it's a bit weird.
Also, things are definitely over between me and my ex. I'm still kind of in shock, since that was the best relationship I've had and I'm still facing the prospect of not having it available. I dunno, I think I'll be back to normal soon enough, but damn. Ever notice how relationships are pretty much
10 Find relationships a waste of time
20 Meet someone who defies expectations
30 Bliss
40 Breakup
50 GOTO 10
1. Girls are silly. Hell, people are silly.
2. I'm sorry to hear that. :/ I don't have a whole lot of experience with relationships, but I can definitely see where you're getting that idea; heh.
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Well, I'm living proof that it IS possible to find someone who you can have a long relationship with (We've been going out for 5 years), but I know someone online who is also living proof that even after 8 years things can go south. Relationships are like Russian Roulette, only the gun has an unknown number of chambers. Your bound to find a winner (or nearly bound anyway :/) but god knows how many failure you'll have to endure before you do.
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Relationships are a waste of time
that is all
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Relationships are a waste of time
that is all
SLEEP 3045600
GOTO 20
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10 GOTO 10
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10 GOTO 10
GOTO IS THE DEVIL! BAD CODE AHOY!
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goddamn man, do you always have a gf or something
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so I got together with a friend of a friend of mine at a Denny's for valentine's day (only place that was available that evening), though we've been going out for a week beforehand, yet this was the first time seeing her in person. So far after meeting her she's fuckin perfect.
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so i guess we mutually broke it off today
where have i heard that before ::)
we're gonna have sex for the first time next week. we already decided that.
... BUT WE JUST BROKE UP.
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we're gonna have sex for the first time next week. we already decided that.
... BUT WE JUST BROKE UP.
The hell? lol.
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The hell? lol.
yeah i know hahaha
it's soooo messed up
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dude, don't use any type of birth control
that way she'll always "remember" you
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Nooooooo, don't do that, then you got a kid to deal with. Best way to do it, is just unload all over her face hair, up her nose, everywhere you possibly can, then don't bother to help her clean it up, lol.
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Or you could just fuck her brains out in such a way that she begs you to go back to her.
In which case you slap her across the face and go "HO! I gots other bitches to go deal with now! Now go get me a sammich!"
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Nooooooo, don't do that, then you got a kid to deal with.
lol that was the point/joke
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lol @ girls with kids
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lol @ girls with kids
lol @ girls accepting responsibilities
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lol @ girls accepting responsibilities
If you can't run from your problems you're not trying hard enough.
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lol @ girls with dicks
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lol @ girls with kids
lol @ kids with guns
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Bump. FUCK RELATIONSHIPS. Stupid fucking whore cheats on me after 14 months of being with her. Another cheating whore to add to the list, Just my luck.
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I've got a name, a face, and the vague possibility that this person might like me, and this is the most excited I've been in weeks. Sad Y/N
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Been in a new relationship since 10/23.
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fucking <3
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I met a pretty cool girly recently. She's different than other girls I like/that like me because she doesn't seem to be clinically insane :D She also likes Doctor Who which is fucking awesome. I met her about a week ago and she's leaving for California for two weeks, but she said she wants to hang out before she leaves so I feel pretty good about that.
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Sigh broke up with my girlfriend just after our 2 year anniversary.
Our relationship was "too good" and "you can't get it right on the first try." She also asked permission to break up with me.
I guess neither of us really dated anyone else, so I see the point, but still. We're still on good terms.
Time to go whore myself out lol
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Our relationship was "too good" and "you can't get it right on the first try." She also asked permission to break up with me.
What the hell kind of bullshit is that? D:
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Yeah seriously... that's not a reason to break up.
What crap :/
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Sounds as if she was just trying to make something up. :/
I'm sorry bro.
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Yeah seriously... that's not a reason to break up.
What crap :/
I know right. I think her thing was to see what else is out there while we're still young. She has "to see how bad the other guys are" compared to me.
Sounds as if she was just trying to make something up. :/
I'm sorry bro.
Almost does doesn't it? Although we've almost broken up numerous times before for other, more valid reasons lol.
Whatever, if it's meant to be, I'm sure it'll work out. Honestly I haven't even felt down about it at all, I don't know why.
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Ugh. Well, at least you're not all down and stuff. :3
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I know right. I think her thing was to see what else is out there while we're still young. She has "to see how bad the other guys are" compared to me.
A friend of mine had the same thing happen, only she was a lot more blunt about it. He loved her, and was going out with her for about 4 years before she finally broke up with him :/ He's been heartbroken ever since.
My girlfriend and I have barely went out with other people, but neither of us want to break up specifically because we both know how hard it is to find people like this, and breaking up and getting back together is likely not possible. I'm constantly thanking god/fate/whatever might exist/science/etc. that we did find eachother, because I really don't want to deal with all the bullshit that comes with dating.
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i've been fapping to the same girl for 4 years now
and she's not my girlfriend
although tbh idk who would fap to their girlfriend
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i've been fapping to the same girl for 4 years now
and she's not my girlfriend
this is hilarious to me, mostly because this means that you've been jerking to the same girl since I've known you
hahahaha
on topic I don't have anyone in my life because I'm asexual Q_Q
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So that girl I mentioned earlier happens to be best friends with a girl I was "involved" with in the past. And by that I mean I was going through some tough shit and was lonely and vulnerable, and she basically seduced me and got me to make some really stupid choices. Oh and she's also my friend's ex-girlfriend, and just generally crazy and disturbed.
But I still like the girl even though she's friends with a psychopath. She asked me the two questions I always ask people when I want to get to know them, and they are: what is your favorite color and animal. As soon as she asked me those two questions I was quite sure she is awesome.
She's leaving today to California for two weeks to visit family and I get to sit here and let my horrendously over-active imagination burden me with anxiousness.
I should mention the last time I had anything close to a serious relationship was about two years ago, and that ended in my first real mental breakdown so I'm just a little cautious this time. I would really love to avoid any kind of pain like I did with my last girlfriend, but I don't want that experience to ruin what could possibly be really good right now.
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Necrobump for I've got a hangout/gaming/date-type thing with a dude on Friday. MORE INFORMATION AS THIS STORY PROGRESSES
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Just got an apartment with my girl. holy shit.
such a weird feeling, this is the first time I've actually been out on my own supporting myself.
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Props my nigga. I really need to do the same, but I feel like the worst person in the world at getting and maintaining a job. They must sense my blackness.
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Just got an apartment with my girl. holy shit.
such a weird feeling, this is the first time I've actually been out on my own supporting myself.
Grats. I really need to get out on my own, but I need a job first, and I'd like it to be more economically viable for me than living at home... Unfortunately not paying rent is kinda rather attractive since driving to school costs less than rent would... And I have no income either.