Okay guys I have a question, one which has been positively haunting me for the past few days.
If your girlfriend wore a really tight white blouse- one of those quasi-see-through types- with no bra, in which her teats are extraordinarily visible (i.e. spotlights, exponentially increased when the room is cold) in public and around friends/peers, would it upset you?
We got into quite a nice argument over this the other day, and I need to make sure I'm not crazy (or affirm the fact that I am, perhaps). She came over to my house wearing the aforementioned blouse and I flipped a lid because I knew every guy that saw her today probably had a field day sneaking peeks at her.
When I asked my friend at school, who my girlfriend talked to as she visited said school, if she could tell my girlfriend wasn't wearing a bra, she replied in the affirmative- yeah, it was absolutely noticeable, and i'm sure everyone else noticed too.
And her reasoning is simply that it's comfortable. Right, it's comfortable, for wearing around the house. Self-respecting people (of which she has none- self-respect, that is) don't wear that out in public. She is under the impression that because her breasts are "small" (smaller than she'd like, of course) nobody else ever notices them or cares. I tried to make it clear to her that when she doesn't wear a bra and does wear an extraordinarily tight, revealing blouse, they do, but she refused to believe me.
Obviously my reasoning is that I don't want people other than me to see that sort of thing. Call it being possessive? Or jealous? I suppose it's both of those, but hell, that's how I feel. I don't want other guys to see what was supposed to be a privilege to me.
Tell me I'm crazy.
